The world around us is changing. Now women are much freer and so their approach to draw men in is also changing. Women are now more debonair and risk oriented in term of drawing men into relationship. New dating tips are teaching them the art of hooking, fashion clothes and jewellery are helping them to be more seductive and look sensuous.
The cultural change in metros is getting its speed. Night clubs, bar and lounges culture is also growing and it is getting common that women are freely enjoying liquor and dance floor in skimpy clothes. Now the music industry has some lyrics which sounds enticing but meaning is always vulgar and cheap.
Female are now more exposed to sex divas and their glamorous world. That helps the young heart to experience the joy of luxury. Females are getting conscious about their figures, lifestyle, rich nights and free sex.
Getting drunk in bar like fish is a new trend that definitely adds a huge generation gap, particularly in India’s metro city where night doesn’t sleep. New cell phones are helping in getting pictures clicked and social sites are the best place to showcase the world that fun is now our statement.
Songs with vulgar and frivolous lyrics are adding more excitement on a dance floor as dance steps are also getting influenced by sex steps. Dark background and disco lights are offering better look at the skimpy clad girls and that results in the opposite sex attraction which is similar to moths’ attraction to a flame.
Girls don’t want to wait for parents to look for suitable boy. They are confident to get one suitable for them. They are working and earning a fat salary and can afford the luxury in life.
Ladies night, Party time and Couple night are the best hangout places to meet the love birds. It is very easy to have friends and it is pointless to say one-night stand and live-in relationships are getting popularity in bigger cities. But these relations mostly suffer humiliation, disrespect, and abuse and increase the gap between man- woman relationships.
“Men are bastards. They are pigs. They are just dogs around hot woman. etc.” Well, these statements have become very common because the number of women suffering in such relation is increasing.
Relation never stands with her clothes off, drinks and purchasing capacity. These are momentary. The real sweetness of her nature gets buried somewhere and what man finds in her is the simple nakedness that soon falls short after a short life of togetherness.
Men never feel comfortable with introducing the sizzling woman to his family, friends and colleagues. Such relationship always remains as a clandestine affair or a comfit space between the two and mostly ends with complains, abuse and suffering.
Bad guys usually fall first in women’s hand who are just crazy about new temptress and enjoyment. Good men always seem to be party poppers, frigid and unimportant, who fail to impress the hot and bold girls in one go.
It is just a misconception which is helping women in selecting the wrong guys and automatically wrong results come in the hand. When you are using your sexual energy to lure a man then it is natural that he sees only fun and sex in you. You are hot for body but consciously or subconsciously his mind puts you in not serious mode. He finds you only a good hooker and he never counts on your good side of life.
In fact, there are so many women available in skimpy clothes that their mind is ready for a new bit and fishing for a new type of woman is always exhilarating and fun. They have trained themselves for uncommitted sex and want to live like a toy boy only.
In life we all want a committed partner and loving togetherness but the rich luxuriating lights, bar glasses and pressure to make a bold fashion statement ends up messing our life.
It is natural you want to be special and wanted but your sexual vixen side can never let you win a good heart. Only a good man can be a good husband and a good father, but you have only one life to live and youth is a very short time to enjoy so think else paddle the cycle and move on till you can keep your energy level high.
It’s uprising voming from a player as yourself puneet. It is not always the woman that is skimpy or hooking up. I know a man that gets on the Internet and talks of live and commitment to get women. Then when he had their attention. He talk naughty to get them excited and once he has had his fill. He moves on. Is he not any better then the young girls that are fishing for love in the wrong pool of water. Do men/boys keep themselves for their wives over there? I doubt it. As its a practise of most men to pay their sons on the back for bedding more women. But slap the face of the daughter that loses herself before marriage. Get with the century we live. It’s not perfect but it is now. Gone are the days of arranged marriages. And if it hasn’t gone yet then it bloody well should be.
Hooking is an art like fishing. But we fish not to see the fish living with us but to have a meal. The same I am saying here: that people who hook, they often hook to kill but not to live in relation. Women find it easy to hook with their skimpy clothes and men find it easier when being romantic. But both are trying to please the opposite person – as we don’t give strawberry to a fish but we give her what best she likes – worms. So man gives woman false promises and woman gives her hotter side but both soon get disappointed.