“Do you have any prejudice against a separated woman?” Last night one of my friends asked me. Soon I clear my idea that no, I have no prejudice. My idea is not to hurry into marriage. Take time, understand the strength of your relation then think to settle in life and when you are settled try to grow into the relationship. Mostly it is seen that relation gets over with the honeymoon.
A woman in bed with you is like a poetry that has its filtered meaning as this woman is now full of romance and passion and their relationship has valued each other to an extent that now they are ready to be one. It connotes that after spending so much time together, finally a strong bond of trust is made and she is ready to unwind herself before her love. Sex is actually the byproduct of your longing for her, for the love stored in the two hearts.
It is true that we often hear about sex that it is the most hampering requirement of our body that never satiates. Actually sex ferments the blood and soon an unknown part of love starts to flow in the blood that propels us to writhe for the closeness. But our relationship ought to realize that this writhe is the magic that should not ever be satiated. Let the magic of sex transport into a long lasting love and into a harmonious relationship that makes a strong bond and a promise to live together forever.
Relationship grows with time and it has the cosmic beauty that holds the meaning of pure understanding of one’s mind and its faculties that store emotions, fear, psyche and several sweet and arid memories which have helped in shaping the personality of a person whom you are in love with. It is more important to spend a good deal of time getting to know each other than rushing into bed. But everyone craves to satisfy their rosy butterflies of sex and fantasy at the unripe stage of relationship which soon can meet the ugly and bare face of disharmony.
My friend is now single, a mother of seven years old girl and now only 32, beautiful and eligible to look for her new Prince Charlie. She was really very honest in her words and expression and expectation. Hope she is now better experienced to measure the strength of relationship before going into the matrimony again.
I agree it is always a difficult to trust someone, as the saying goes: “Once beaten twice shy.” Trust takes time and it becomes very difficult when you have come out of a bad relationship. It really takes a lot of time in opening the heart again. It is better to wait a little for the right time and the right man, who can lull the heart forever.
It is seen that in the initial stage of relationship both try to keep their words sugarcoated so truth takes time but it surely appears. But the one who goes deeper suffers a lot so one always tries to keep the relationship boat on surface.
In fact, Life is a gamble in which marriage is really a very big gamble. After all you can’t know a person until you have spent a good deal of time with him or her. We mostly judge people on their face value. If someone speaks fine, it doesn’t mean he or she is equally good at heart. If we keep our eyes and ears open then gradually we gain maturity and we learn reality better and we judge people from heart and find a better life partner.
It is always good to keep honesty as the best policy in life and in relationship.