Love is the most important emotion that is triggered in heart and under its influence we feel to spend our life. But do we really know that Love happens right in brain and not at heart? Well, right from the beginning we have read from writers, philosopher, thinkers and religious teachers that love lives in heart but science says: “Love is a process subject to biological forces beyond our conscious control.” And love is possible due to some natural chemical changes in our brain only.

Hypothalamus:

• It is the most important part of the brain that coordinates with the nervous system and that controls body temperature, thirst, hunger, and other homeostatic systems, and involved in sleep and emotional activity. Love and lust are one of the most important emotions which are also regulated by it. In fact, love does not grow in heart but in brain.
• It is Hypothalamus that first notices your attraction level and soon helps in release of chemical like testosterone and due to this chemical your heart races, breathing gets faster and other things happen. Soon after this our reward centre gets flooded with dopamine which is the brain’s feel good chemical and her or his presence is all what you want.

Androgens:

• Sex is a much hidden thing in human life and science is always ready to go deeper into it to find out the human behavior. Human is always craving to see an object or thing which even includes sex and sex objects. As eyes see and brain captures the image then at the same time it releases a chemical – a hormones called Androgens including testosterone.
• Researchers find that woman’s brain releases more new testosterone than men. It is no wonder that sex helps both men and women to gain more testosterone in their body. As a woman finds a suitable match for her, testosterone level exceeds. It helps human to have better sex math and they want more sex in their life.

Orgasm:

• Sex with the right person of love is addictive. It not only gives better health but it also helps the desire to have more sex in life. A good sex definitely means to experience orgasm. You will be surprised to know that orgasm consumes 30 parts of the brain which includes touch, fantasy, memory and rewards.
• A good sex must involve orgasm and it releases chemicals like Serotonin and Opioids as the best reward. This chemical is also found is drugs like Heroin. That makes sex addictive provided it is performed with the right person of love.

Amygdala:

• Our brain is always active and always alert. It monitors even danger and risk. There is an area near brain steam which is known as Amygdala which is also known as threat detector and it starts functioning as it perceives any risk or danger. But when you are in love and flooded with romantic thoughts then be careful, it means that your life saving ship has let down its armor and there can be enemies attack at any time. The shaft device that detects and alerts you to danger and risk is now in sleeping mode.
• It is the Amygdala whose absence makes lovers to get into wrong decision. The result can be dangerous too. Sometimes lovers fall in trap of unprotected sex or jealousy that can lead to any fatal action.

Oxytocin

• Our brain also understands the difference between love and lust. When brain moves from lust to love our brain floods our blood with neurotransmitter Oxytocin. It is the chemical that predict attachment behavior. It is the key of our attachment behavior. Due to this chemical we become generous and show empathy for someone. Researchers found that women body always has more Oxytocin than men. However, Men can have high level of oxytocin after a long passionate kiss.
• Good news for you, women that you can let your lover to kiss you passionately and soon his pure lust will change into love and he will be more caring, trust worthy and devotional towards you. It is the biological force that makes this change. We can further go ahead and can say: Oxytocin can make a promiscuous man into a monogamous one.

Vagus Nerves:

• We often learn that in love people surrender their heart, mind and soul. Science finds that there is vagus nerve which connects brain with the heart in a couple who have been in love for long. Their heart rhythms, facial expressions and hand gestures start to find harmony in their order and this is majorly regulated by this vagus nerve. This result into making a strong bond between lovers and one can better feel or detect the pain or trouble in each other’s life. They are now ready to sacrifice anything and everything for each other.
• Researchers have found that if the desire of sacrifice is coming out from within then even the suffering gives mental and physical health benefits. It is also seen that Vagus nerve strengthens more and love goes deeper and there is more activity in brain and that reduces the pain and anxiety.

Touch:

• It is the first medium of conveying your emotions. It has the capacity to convey a range of emotions. It is seen that touch reduces stress levels and helps in increasing happiness. Researchers have found that there is a gender difference in how touch is perceived. It is not necessary that women can feel compassion only in man’s touch. However, it is also seen that man gets slow in picking up anger in woman’s touch.
• It is also found that touch teaches us to forgive and the feeling of touch reaches down to the level of our cells. Researchers have found that as love matures couples learns to appreciate the weaknesses of each other’s and lover’s presence is unparalleled and nothing can give that sense of pleasure of happiness when lover touches each other’s.

Love now everyone from your brain and let brain work and keep your heart smiling for this best functioning and holding the rewards of love while brain does all.