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When Love is in brain

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Love is the most important emotion that is triggered in heart and under its influence we feel to spend our life. But do we really know that Love happens right in brain and not at heart? Well, right from the beginning we have read from writers, philosopher, thinkers and religious teachers that love lives in heart but science says: “Love is a process subject to biological forces beyond our conscious control.” And love is possible due to some natural chemical changes in our brain only.

Hypothalamus:

  • It is the most important part of the brain that coordinates with the nervous system and that controls body temperature, thirst, hunger, and other homeostatic systems, and involved in sleep and emotional activity. Love and lust are one of the most important emotions which are also regulated by it. In fact, love does not grow in heart but in brain.
  • It is Hypothalamus that first notices your attraction level and soon helps in release of chemical like testosterone and due to this chemical your heart races, breathing gets faster and other things happen. Soon after this our reward centre gets flooded with dopamine which is the brain’s feel good chemical and her or his presence is all what you want.

 

Androgens:

  • Sex is a much hidden thing in human life and science is always ready to go deeper into it to find out the human behavior. Human is always craving to see an object or thing which even includes sex and sex objects. As eyes see and brain captures the image then at the same time it releases a chemical – a hormones called Androgens including testosterone.
  • Researchers find that woman’s brain releases more new testosterone than men. It is no wonder that sex helps both men and women to gain more testosterone in their body. As a woman finds a suitable match for her, testosterone level exceeds. It helps human to have better sex math and they want more sex in their life.

 

Orgasm:

  • Sex with the right person of love is addictive. It not only gives better health but it also helps the desire to have more sex in life. A good sex definitely means to experience orgasm. You will be surprised to know that orgasm consumes 30 parts of the brain which includes touch, fantasy, memory and rewards.
  • A good sex must involve orgasm and it releases chemicals like Serotonin and Opioids as the best reward. This chemical is also found is drugs like Heroin. That makes sex addictive provided it is performed with the right person of love.

 

Amygdala:

  • Our brain is always active and always alert. It monitors even danger and risk. There is an area near brain steam which is known as Amygdala which is also known as threat detector and it starts functioning as it perceives any risk or danger. But when you are in love and flooded with romantic thoughts then be careful, it means that your life saving ship has let down its armor and there can be enemies attack at any time. The shaft device that detects and alerts you to danger and risk is now in sleeping mode.
  • It is the Amygdala whose absence makes lovers to get into wrong decision. The result can be dangerous too. Sometimes lovers fall in trap of unprotected sex or jealousy that can lead to any fatal action.

 

Oxytocin

  • Our brain also understands the difference between love and lust. When brain moves from lust to love our brain floods our blood with neurotransmitter Oxytocin. It is the chemical that predict attachment behavior. It is the key of our attachment behavior. Due to this chemical we become generous and show empathy for someone. Researchers found that women body always has more Oxytocin than men. However, Men can have high level of oxytocin after a long passionate kiss.
  • Good news for you, women that you can let your lover to kiss you passionately and soon his pure lust will change into love and he will be more caring, trust worthy and devotional towards you. It is the biological force that makes this change. We can further go ahead and can say: Oxytocin can make a promiscuous man into a monogamous one.

 

Vagus Nerves:

  • We often learn that in love people surrender their heart, mind and soul. Science finds that there is vagus nerve which connects brain with the heart in a couple who have been in love for long. Their heart rhythms, facial expressions and hand gestures start to find harmony in their order and this is majorly regulated by this vagus nerve. This result into making a strong bond between lovers and one can better feel or detect the pain or trouble in each other’s life. They are now ready to sacrifice anything and everything for each other.
  • Researchers have found that if the desire of sacrifice is coming out from within then even the suffering gives mental and physical health benefits. It is also seen that Vagus nerve strengthens more and love goes deeper and there is more activity in brain and that reduces the pain and anxiety.

 

Touch:

  • It is the first medium of conveying your emotions. It has the capacity to convey a range of emotions. It is seen that touch reduces stress levels and helps in increasing happiness. Researchers have found that there is a gender difference in how touch is perceived. It is not necessary that women can feel compassion only in man’s touch. However, it is also seen that man gets slow in picking up anger in woman’s touch.
  • It is also found that touch teaches us to forgive and the feeling of touch reaches down to the level of our cells. Researchers have found that as love matures couples learns to appreciate the weaknesses of each other’s and lover’s presence is unparalleled and nothing can give that sense of pleasure of happiness when lover touches each other’s.

Love now everyone from your brain and let brain work and keep your heart smiling for this best functioning and holding the rewards of love while brain does all.

I want to live my dreams

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Words are the real pleasure. They carry the weight of sad soul and light heart. They transform the sad and alone one into a blessed one. Words are magic, which changes life.

I always dream for this change and my words rushed to let on everything as and when I got an impulse of a right person who rightly dubbed my heart.

Life is just a dream when I let on my heart and flow in its pure rush of emotions. I feel I have someone in my life who is here for me as a divine gift and I surrender my words before him or her.

Indeed, my romantic imagination assuaged a woman who can speak all with her eyes and make me kiss her with my eyes before I actually do with my lips. I feel my imagination is tilling me and my passion is a river needing desperately to meet the ocean of blessed love.

My life seems a big bag of dream where I dream a lot. I worded my heart several times and somewhere, like an unknown, my reality was resting and waiting to enter into my life.

Reality always came to jostle, to break my dreams, to make me bleed with emotions and my wounded soul cried bitterly. But my dreams again enveloped me like a clouds in a sky. It rained over the dried feeling and I soon rejuvenated with spring of love and I feel more strongly to word my dreams.

This is my life and I want it like this only. I want to live with my dreams. Realities of life make me bleed. I know a man can live very happily with his dreams and expectation of sweet dreams.

love to go closer to someone and then in dream I dream again to marry her and call her my wife and mother of our babies. Dreams are really a part of life which promises love and care in life. A sweet dream of happy family is what we all want to see. It is the impulse which never misses to promise that the love which we experience is actually a true dream that makes life worth living.

Life is a big bag of dreams and living to turn the dream into reality is the actual meaning of life. It is difficult to live alone. We need many friends, relatives and our own loved ones. Relation is something worth living for. Relation from heart is the most available thing in life. It is like a flow of a river. It can take many things away but the beauty of flow is always there and that keeps the water clean and beautiful.

Relation is not mathematics. It is not calculation. It is in love where loses can be profit and profit can be loss. It holds a world within it and life grows and slips somewhere within it.

People meet and come closer to heart in several ways and telling about them in our daily talk is one of my big dreams. It is not easy to carry the essence of valuable relation in words but having their presence in our talks helps them to grow more important in life.

My dear you have come in my life and now my dreams are all for you. I need to see this dream for life time. People are important and their presence around us is poetic and mysterious. You give them colours and I love to see them in your light of thoughts. You are my garden where I cultivate several colourful dreams of joy and love.

Promise me my love that you will never let me down for any reason and love me with all your tender emotion of love and care. In brief, I want to tell you that you have come out of my dreams and so love me and let me live with my dreams.

Relation never grows over skin

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The world around us is changing. Now women are much freer and so their approach to draw men in is also changing. Women are now more debonair and risk oriented in term of drawing men into relationship. New dating tips are teaching them the art of hooking, fashion clothes and jewellery are helping them to be more seductive and look sensuous.

The cultural change in metros is getting its speed. Night clubs, bar and lounges culture is also growing and it is getting common that women are freely enjoying liquor and dance floor in skimpy clothes. Now the music industry has some lyrics which sounds enticing but meaning is always vulgar and cheap.

Female are now more exposed to sex divas and their glamorous world. That helps the young heart to experience the joy of luxury. Females are getting conscious about their figures, lifestyle, rich nights and free sex.

Getting drunk in bar like fish is a new trend that definitely adds a huge generation gap, particularly in India’s metro city where night doesn’t sleep.  New cell phones are helping in getting pictures clicked and social sites are the best place to showcase the world that fun is now our statement.

Songs with vulgar and frivolous lyrics are adding more excitement on a dance floor as dance steps are also getting influenced by sex steps. Dark background and disco lights are offering better look at the skimpy clad girls and that results in the opposite sex attraction which is similar to moths’ attraction to a flame.

Girls don’t want to wait for parents to look for suitable boy. They are confident to get one suitable for them. They are working and earning a fat salary and can afford the luxury in life.

Ladies night, Party time and Couple night are the best hangout places to meet the love birds. It is very easy to have friends and it is pointless to say one-night stand and live-in relationships are getting popularity in bigger cities. But these relations mostly suffer humiliation, disrespect, and abuse and increase the gap between man- woman relationships.

“Men are bastards. They are pigs. They are just dogs around hot woman. etc.” Well, these statements have become very common because the number of women suffering in such relation is increasing.

Relation never stands with her clothes off, drinks and purchasing capacity. These are momentary. The real sweetness of her nature gets buried somewhere and what man finds in her is the simple nakedness that soon falls short after a short life of togetherness.

Men never feel comfortable with introducing the sizzling woman to his family, friends and colleagues. Such relationship always remains as a clandestine affair or a comfit space between the two and mostly ends with complains, abuse and suffering.

Bad guys usually fall first in women’s hand who are just crazy about new temptress and enjoyment. Good men always seem to be party poppers, frigid and unimportant, who fail to impress the hot and bold girls in one go.

It is just a misconception which is helping women in selecting the wrong guys and automatically wrong results come in the hand. When you are using your sexual energy to lure a man then it is natural that he sees only fun and sex in you. You are hot for body but consciously or subconsciously his mind puts you in not serious mode. He finds you only a good hooker and he never counts on your good side of life.

In fact, there are so many women available in skimpy clothes that their mind is ready for a new bit and fishing for a new type of woman is always exhilarating and fun. They have trained themselves for uncommitted sex and want to live like a toy boy only.

In life we all want a committed partner and loving togetherness but the rich luxuriating lights, bar glasses and pressure to make a bold fashion statement ends up messing our life.

It is natural you want to be special and wanted but your sexual vixen side can never let you win a good heart. Only a good man can be a good husband and a good father, but you have only one life to live and youth is a very short time to enjoy so think else paddle the cycle and move on till you can keep your energy level high.

Writing is all about writing and nothing else

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In silence, words enter into the heart of a writer and he writes. It is really very difficult to say what a writer wants from his writing. Money probable comes first as an answer. Well, money is one thing that can’t be denied in life of anyone. But there is truly something subtler which we miss to see. A writer is a person who goes inside and then loose himself somewhere within his characters and voice everything in the language of this character and not in his own. Once he has entered into his character then a writer is gone and only his character is speaking.

A writer is not writing only for money. He writes not even for pleasure. He works as an independent soul and his pen speaks all about his passion, revenge, despair and even love for beauty. The pleasure of recording life in his book is the most important pleasure which goes above all the material gain.

There have been several anonymous writers who drove their pleasure in literary pursuit which definitely entertained the readers but who gained no credit in their names. They hide themselves from society but the urge to write doesn’t perish. Words find their way to the brim of the bottle and splash reach to the readers.

You can also be thinking that those anonymous writers are mostly offering salacious materials which is partly true. But no one can deny the fact that readers love the frankly written stuff describing all that can ever be thought and imagined. If one can write so well then why go anonymous? Social pressure! Well, it’s not only on writers, look for example at painters and their painting.

In ancient time, not everyone was educated so not everyone could read and go with the shuttle fine essence of a beauty described in a book. But people could see the paintings. So there must be something else that made those writers to go anonymous.

Writing is an art of entering and allowing others to enter a world of a writer’s imagination where everything looks very natural and logical as one finds in the real world.

Sometimes a writer’s life goes on account of so many changes and conflicts that money is just a thing to foot the bills for living. Words that come out in a book is not a mere portrait of his novel’s characters but a self-assertion coming somewhere deep from within.

A writer’s life is an open book but art has shrouded everything into mystery. If one knows the art of seeing then the bare account of incidences, emotional dishevelment and disenchantments will come before him and then in that light it will be easier to know how his creativity summarized his all experiences into his creative works. Harry Potter can be one the best example in this case.

Life is never smooth for anyone. It always introduces one with several acute and severe pains. If writing is pain, then it is also a solution for all pains that pass in our life especially for those who live and die for writing and refined taste in life.

Writing is where cuckoo learns to crow

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Writing is where cuckoo learns to crow. A cuckoo is a highly sophisticated bird that has the wonder of getting her work done by others. This capitalist approach in cuckoo is what makes her stand far away from the other birds. She is the cleverest bird, much more beautiful and ornamented than that black crow who unknowingly each time very motherly hatches her eggs. As she learns at the end whom she was hatching, and the real source of pleasure and satisfaction in her life is merely a foolish game played against her and now bitterness is all that is rolling down her heart.

Life is never fair to anyone. Wise become foolish and foolish become wise, rich become poor and poor become rich and each life has its own cry and pleasure. Cuckoo sounds the wisest but she must also be crying in a corner of her heart at the inability to have the pleasure of hatching her own baby eggs.

There is a pleasure in waiting to see her baby to come out of their eggs but fear is always there that the crow who is so motherly caring these eggs will soon be the first enemy for her babies after the bitter truth will abject her life and the despair that her eggs were broken only for these cuckoo’s babies to be born.

Indeed cuckoo feels the pleasure of trumps, a winner. Indeed, winner’s story is different from the loser’s but both stories carry a powerful voice of some good and bad aspects of life. These pieces of voices own the real taste of life.

Every life has a story, a plot, a sub plot, a drama, a spice and all that makes a novel a work of art and transforming the life into the work of art is never an easy try. This process is very shuttle. It needs a very unique voice that can carry and keep the balance of the weight of triumphs and sorrow. It may have the capacity to muddle this humdrum of life into a fine blend of creative energy that can inspire and help everyone who loves reading, who believes in magic and who believes that life is energy and it finds its own way out.

Writing is all about giving voice to these deep shuttle layers of life. Writing is like living a life of a cuckoo and a crow. Then after getting both the experience and knowing the limitation and boundaries that circumcise the life and make an area of living, after learning all, look for the areas of inner freedom of joy in life.

A writer has to own the responsibility to be very detached and see everything within the arena of his personal and impersonal life experiences and run his imagination to reach where cuckoo learns to crow.

Porn is ruining us

untitled-infographicNow everyone knows that marriage promises us a happy life with sex that has intimacy and respect for one another. It also helps parents to set good example for their children. A happy married life is where no one has complains from others and each one is happy. This is an ideal kind of marriage we all expect but this idea soon vanishes in most lives. We know human body has its own demands and getting the right amount keeps everything at its place. Definitely love, care, intimacy, trust etc. play an important role in building a healthy relationship.

This new gift of technology called porn on internet is somehow spoiling the good elements of a healthy relationship. The excess use of porn keeps the mind filled with images that make our bedroom life dull, boring and somehow the relation suffers. I am not saying by any means that men are watching; no, a survey conducted by National coalition for the protection of Children and Families says: 40% are women.

Another survey conducted by American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers says: 56% of divorces cases are coming only because one party is having obsession for porn. And another survey says that 68% divorce cases are coming due to one partner meeting a new person through internet.

Stats are revealing that situation is running from bad to worst and we must be open to discuss the effect of porn and where it is leading us. It is really important to come out of the shell and understand that world is watching us. It is no more as we think that I am watching porn on my laptop or mobile and world does not know what I am doing. It is spoiling our brain, our relation and setting wrong examples for children.

A survey conducted by Internet-Filter-Review.com which says: The average of our kids exposure to porn is 11 years and the largest consumer of pornography are in the age of 12 to 17 years.

Pornographic is a addiction. It controls our mind and makes us belief in what they are offering. We know that what we are seeing is not real. There is a world of difference between what we are watching and what actually happens but we are so much obsess with this idea of sex that we stop to differentiate and incur loses.

Pornography is around 57 billion dollar industry as what Top Ten review says. It has only grown so big as industry because we miss to understand the difference. Each day it is growing. It is spreading around us like a drug and leaving its effect on us like a drug. We are slave of its use. We are losing our family and respect for one another. We are seeing everyone from the narrow sense of excitement and we are making an individualist society there a human need to swallow porn as drugs.

Porn is dangerous for health

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Today digital world has made everything at our finger tips. Sensuous pleasure is something that human is mad to find and getting this in digital world has become very easy. And this easy access is making disturbance in our life too. Early exposure to sex is getting worst these days.

Actually it is high time to get rational and understand. Porn has got induced in our life in such a way that it is actually crossing its limits and men are becoming its slave. There is powerful lust dragging us toward the virtual world and upgraded technology is making it more dangerous.

Men’s toy which is also his pleasure toy works too much to earn the best pleasure but too much of anything is dangerous.  Mind captures those images within and toy is ready to jerk off. This situation is causing problems in social, personal and professional life.

Pornography which is also known as visual sexual stimuli (VSS) keeps men in fantasy but there is always a limit. Just think for a minute what if it refused to erect and perform well then it is really hard to image the havoc about the sterile life. Porn is causing a serious problem and our young generation is now flooded with problems like erectile dysfunction.

It has been found that masturbating too much is actually an addiction but it’s worsened by pornography.  “When people start watching porn, there is a huge flood of dopamine in the brain,” explains Dr. Elizabeth Waterman, a psychologist at Morningside Recovery Center in Newport California. “Over time, the receptors that were once very sensitive become less sensitive, and normal physical intimacy does not produce enough dopamine to stimulate the dopamine receptors.” In other words, we are training our mind and body to respond sexually only to very specific types of visual and tactile stimuli.

According to Dr. Waterman, there is nothing like this number can cause this kind of problem. But there is a condition – if it has started to back fire your life, work, social life or sex life (i.e. ED, then the cure is simple. Stop watching those and resist the temptation to jerk. Soon within 3 months or so you will be fine. “Some people’s brains reach homeostasis [or, physiological equilibrium] much quicker,” Dr. Waterman explains. “Time is your best friend when it comes to reestablishing homeostasis in the brain.”

It is always wise to get your brain away from these porn materials and keeps your bedroom stories young forever. As per Psychology today long hours of porn lead to compulsive desire to jerk off and heavy jerking can lead to ED and a sad wife and family ties are getting lose due to this.

Writer should promote his book

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World is changing and so is the book publishing industry. No matter what an industry deals with but the intension is all about earning profits and money so the same goes for the publishing industry.

They too promote wisely writers and books which they see as cash cows. So if you are new writer it is not a good idea to wait for your publisher to take all the pain and make you famous.

Everyone who dreams to be a writer always sees his name in the bestselling author’s list. After all dream doesn’t cost anything. But unfortunately writing is all about staying up till late at night and write long.

Have you ever asked how one book becomes so popular and another probably equally good waits for the sunshine? If you really have noted and asked yourself then you will agree that it is all about the personal involvement of a writer to create awareness about his writing, his presence among the readers and informing the readers what this book is all about. This creates curiosity in readers who try to grab your book on the first go.

In other words, bestselling book is the end result of the best effort made by an author. Sincerity to give information to the right people is the key but publishing firms are not waiting to do all this labor for you.  They have others who have better author’s base amongst the readers and people know their creative prowess and waiting for their next book so your book as an indie author may never catch their eyes in promotional list.

In this era of new marketing presence social media is the best place to generate more awareness and involving more people with you. It is better to turn all stones and leave your mark there. For promotion go anywhere you can. Always share the information on social media platforms.

You have a range of places where you can really go and try your luck. You can try to have a talk on radio shows, talk to the book columnists, the media personals, the book reviewers. In fact, anyone who can help to convey your dream book, what your book is and what it means to those readers.

In today’s time self- publishing is the right way to learn all about publishing, by doing all by yourself.  When you know you are the publisher and no one else is there who can look after your book then you will certainly look for your best.

Always remember you can do it. You are not losing anything. You are learning new things and doing everything that is important for your readers – to know about you and your book.

Your book must be having some special lines which can be used as quotes which can make your book popular. There can be quick turn in the character’s personality that can make readers feel more entertained and there can be many more that can differ from reader to reader perspective.
Your success begins with readers’ entertainment and like so try to push yourself as much as you can to access bigger audience of your genre. It can cost you some money but at the end it will give you rich dividends.

Get yourself known to your readers. Get yourself to the readers & get your readers read your book.

Porn is influencing our life

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Recently I was having a word with an editor of a magazine who wants to take her magazine to gain some extra mileage with some real bold stuff on love, sex, relationship. So going ahead I added porn and she immediately corrected me that it is too bold.

Well, some boldness is still considered prude but new study says everyone watches porn. Then why is it considered too bold as a subject to be published in a magazine? I was in tug of my own thought and she told me that it’s because her magazine is family magazine.

Thumbs up to those days when there was no issue in love, sex and relationship and if something occurred then it all ended within the four walls of the room. Now even bedroom subjects are on face of the magazine and people learn to make love by reading. Our magazines are littered with tips about sex. Then what stops them to write on porn?

With technologies our world is changing. We are shifting from reading to watching. Gone are the days when cheesy things were at the front page of the magazine and those magazines were read in the bathroom. Now they are on our mobile, tablet and laptop.

If we really want to educate ourselves or get information, then we must know that study says that Pornography use increases the risk of marital infidelity by more than 300%. Should we not come out of our shell and to talk about this in open and really help people?

In our culture it is assumed that the actual sex life starts only after marriage and it wouldn’t be ridiculous to say that it is considered as an electric switch which is after marriage set on and before it is obviously always set on off mode, so pornographic materials are the best and most easily available source to be educated.

This new techno-culture is giving everyone an equal opportunity to tutor themselves. This new generation is the first generation of internet porn operators. This new technology age is bombarding us with 6000 videos each year. Some study says that in every 39 minutes a porn film is made in the U.S. Around 28,258 internet viewers are viewing pornography every second.  When viewing pornography becomes an addiction, 40% of sex addicts lose their spouses, 58 % suffer considerable financial losses and about a third loses their jobs. And The United States is the top producer of pornographic web pages by far with 244,661,900 pages or 89 percent. A study says that from 2,500 university and college students polled across Canada, 87% are having sex over instant messenger, webcams or telephone.

One can think about any kind of dark fantasy story in his mind and its videos are just a click of his mouse. Porn is as if providing you a sexual partner without offering you a physical touch but its influence on your mind is so powerful that it is adding a masturbatory aid for your well-being. It is providing a guilt free sex.

Well, keeping my finger crossed, I beg to ask who really would like to come forward to open a word on this matter. Parents consider that they are watching on their mobile, tablet and laptop and none knows about this and the same is with the kids. They all want to live like a cat and close their eyes as if none is seeing anything.

Sex is a complicated subject to talk about but when the dinosaurs like porn are before us then we have to think and get ourselves out from the thought of our dinosaurs’ old system of learning about sex. Better learn the best from the best possible source and bring these subjects into open.

 

When a writer cries

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A writer uses his emotions to write, to feel his characters, and he enters into the heart and soul of his characters. Emotion is the very point from where he starts. This weaves his entire novel plots and drives him to balance between his characters. Otherwise all will start to react in the same way.

Take for example that a writer is weaving a romantic novel and finds a very natural, jovial young loving characters and he starts entering into their soul. Like us every two individuals are different and any situation brings them closer and they start meeting without thinking much. A writer is also relaxed, feeling good and feeling romantic like his imaginative characters.

Meeting after meeting a fondness increases and walls start to vanish. They both are now ready to let on their hearts. They narrow down the distance between their hearts; indeed, there is still some distance to be covered. Writer knows this. Suddenly one of his characters writes a very emotional piece of message or letter and now the writer is shocked as it was not in his mind that something like that could happen.

In its effect, the receiver of the message gets more involved in the subject and they now start telling each other more. Everything starts changing in their world – a world that is created between their two loving hearts and information about each other’s in deep faith and intimacy starts to spill. Of course all this was to be revealed at some point of time but it suddenly got revealed right now. As the two characters are revealing themselves a writer is getting more tensed because his story is moving fast. He has to take control, but how? No idea.

A writer knows that when you start going into a person you start knowing him or her skin by skin and knowing someone from within is the most difficult part, only because you get connected with him or her in such a way that it becomes difficult to recognize and draw the line from where one starts and from where you start. Line gets too blare. They both get intermixed within their minds. (Here, I may sound pure theoretically but one can experience this only when one steps into another person.)

It is very important that two individuals maintain a distance and slowly step into each other’s hearts and not just get close because of any impulse of emotions. A distance has to be kept and maintained and this distance allows both to live individually. But where do couples want to live individually, where do they like to wait? They usually rush into things. They want to grow intimate. They don’t want to see how gradually the line gets blare between them. The rush of impulse is so high that they are flowing in a current. They are now living in an overwhelmed state.

A writer is silently watching everything, noting everything every minute as if any villain is about to enter into this fairytale like romance. He understands that love is not like any dating site which are full of do and don’t suggestions; follow these steps and recognize your soulmate.

They are soulmates, love just happens, it grows, it evolves and surrounds, and both enter in each other’s heart, not like sex, but with emotion, and make a bond, a promise that a world which is between the two hearts will never end.

Now these characters are so his own that if any unfortunate or misfortune meets them – a writer cries loud as if it is his own pain. A writer is no more distant from his characters. He has also entered into their hearts and living and growing and seeing everything inside out and feeling to love them and give them a better life.

But characters have their own destiny. They are created and nurtured in brain but gradually they are free like humans and can go anywhere they want. A writer is then just an onlooker and a story teller and can have sympathy for his characters but can’t alter their fate. It is the most difficult situation for a writer and this helplessness makes him cry.