Porn is ruining us

untitled-infographicNow everyone knows that marriage promises us a happy life with sex that has intimacy and respect for one another. It also helps parents to set good example for their children. A happy married life is where no one has complains from others and each one is happy. This is an ideal kind of marriage we all expect but this idea soon vanishes in most lives. We know human body has its own demands and getting the right amount keeps everything at its place. Definitely love, care, intimacy, trust etc. play an important role in building a healthy relationship.

This new gift of technology called porn on internet is somehow spoiling the good elements of a healthy relationship. The excess use of porn keeps the mind filled with images that make our bedroom life dull, boring and somehow the relation suffers. I am not saying by any means that men are watching; no, a survey conducted by National coalition for the protection of Children and Families says: 40% are women.

Another survey conducted by American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers says: 56% of divorces cases are coming only because one party is having obsession for porn. And another survey says that 68% divorce cases are coming due to one partner meeting a new person through internet.

Stats are revealing that situation is running from bad to worst and we must be open to discuss the effect of porn and where it is leading us. It is really important to come out of the shell and understand that world is watching us. It is no more as we think that I am watching porn on my laptop or mobile and world does not know what I am doing. It is spoiling our brain, our relation and setting wrong examples for children.

A survey conducted by Internet-Filter-Review.com which says: The average of our kids exposure to porn is 11 years and the largest consumer of pornography are in the age of 12 to 17 years.

Pornographic is a addiction. It controls our mind and makes us belief in what they are offering. We know that what we are seeing is not real. There is a world of difference between what we are watching and what actually happens but we are so much obsess with this idea of sex that we stop to differentiate and incur loses.

Pornography is around 57 billion dollar industry as what Top Ten review says. It has only grown so big as industry because we miss to understand the difference. Each day it is growing. It is spreading around us like a drug and leaving its effect on us like a drug. We are slave of its use. We are losing our family and respect for one another. We are seeing everyone from the narrow sense of excitement and we are making an individualist society there a human need to swallow porn as drugs.

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