Porn is influencing our life

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Recently I was having a word with an editor of a magazine who wants to take her magazine to gain some extra mileage with some real bold stuff on love, sex, relationship. So going ahead I added porn and she immediately corrected me that it is too bold.

Well, some boldness is still considered prude but new study says everyone watches porn. Then why is it considered too bold as a subject to be published in a magazine? I was in tug of my own thought and she told me that it’s because her magazine is family magazine.

Thumbs up to those days when there was no issue in love, sex and relationship and if something occurred then it all ended within the four walls of the room. Now even bedroom subjects are on face of the magazine and people learn to make love by reading. Our magazines are littered with tips about sex. Then what stops them to write on porn?

With technologies our world is changing. We are shifting from reading to watching. Gone are the days when cheesy things were at the front page of the magazine and those magazines were read in the bathroom. Now they are on our mobile, tablet and laptop.

If we really want to educate ourselves or get information, then we must know that study says that Pornography use increases the risk of marital infidelity by more than 300%. Should we not come out of our shell and to talk about this in open and really help people?

In our culture it is assumed that the actual sex life starts only after marriage and it wouldn’t be ridiculous to say that it is considered as an electric switch which is after marriage set on and before it is obviously always set on off mode, so pornographic materials are the best and most easily available source to be educated.

This new techno-culture is giving everyone an equal opportunity to tutor themselves. This new generation is the first generation of internet porn operators. This new technology age is bombarding us with 6000 videos each year. Some study says that in every 39 minutes a porn film is made in the U.S. Around 28,258 internet viewers are viewing pornography every second.  When viewing pornography becomes an addiction, 40% of sex addicts lose their spouses, 58 % suffer considerable financial losses and about a third loses their jobs. And The United States is the top producer of pornographic web pages by far with 244,661,900 pages or 89 percent. A study says that from 2,500 university and college students polled across Canada, 87% are having sex over instant messenger, webcams or telephone.

One can think about any kind of dark fantasy story in his mind and its videos are just a click of his mouse. Porn is as if providing you a sexual partner without offering you a physical touch but its influence on your mind is so powerful that it is adding a masturbatory aid for your well-being. It is providing a guilt free sex.

Well, keeping my finger crossed, I beg to ask who really would like to come forward to open a word on this matter. Parents consider that they are watching on their mobile, tablet and laptop and none knows about this and the same is with the kids. They all want to live like a cat and close their eyes as if none is seeing anything.

Sex is a complicated subject to talk about but when the dinosaurs like porn are before us then we have to think and get ourselves out from the thought of our dinosaurs’ old system of learning about sex. Better learn the best from the best possible source and bring these subjects into open.

 

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